Find Love, Your Way
We believe relationships should be defined by the people in them—not by outdated expectations. Whether you're looking for deep friendships, modern dating, or a unique partnership that works for you, Lavendr helps you find connections that truly complement your life.
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Why Choose Lavendr
We're not just another dating app. We're a community built on respect, authenticity, and meaningful connections.
We believe in quality over quantity. Our platform is designed to help you find genuine connections based on shared interests, values, and goals.
We've implemented robust verification processes, reporting tools, and community guidelines to ensure a safe and respectful environment for all users.
Move beyond superficial exchanges with conversation starters and icebreakers designed to help you get to know your matches on a deeper level.
How It Works
Finding your perfect match has never been easier.
Create Your Profile
Sign up and build your profile with photos, interests, and preferences that showcase the real you.
Discover Matches
Our algorithm suggests compatible matches based on your preferences, interests, and behavior on the platform.
Connect & Chat
When there's mutual interest, start a conversation and get to know each other in our safe messaging environment.
Meet & Connect
When you're ready, take your connection to the next level and meet in person, following our safety guidelines.

Why Lavender Relationships Just Hit Different
Lavender relationships are all about deep emotional connection, commitment, and care— without the pressure to fit into romantic or sexual norms. These connections are built on mutual respect, honesty, and the freedom to define what love and partnership look like for you. Here's why Lavender love is low-key magical:
You get a solid life partner and someone to split the WiFi bill with? Win-win. Whether it's rent, groceries, or late-night takeout, Lavender connections help lighten the adulting load.
Need a last-minute ride, a sounding board, or backup during a family function? Lavender partners are ride-or-dies for the real stuff—emotionally, practically, and everything in between.
These relationships offer a safe, stable foundation—especially for anyone who's been through toxic dynamics. No drama, no pressure—just mutual care and protection.
It's not always about candlelit dinners. Sometimes it's shared laundry days, inside jokes, and silent scrolling next to someone who gets you. That's love too.
Not into romance or sex? Totally fine. Lavender love creates space for commitment, closeness, and emotional intimacy—without expectations that don't feel right for you.
Some Lavender relationships include cuddling, shared beds, or sweet gestures of care. But the physical side is always your call—it's connection, your way.
You can love someone deeply, commit to a shared life, and show up fully—without needing a romantic spark or sexual chemistry. Lavender love is about choosing your person, in the way that feels right for you both.
Lavender relationships are flexible, freeing, and entirely unique. They're about choosing your path, building your own blueprint, and creating something honest and meaningful. Lavender love is real love. It's care without conditions, partnership without pressure, and the kind of connection that just makes sense.
Plan Features | Free Membership $0/month Discover Love, No Cost Required | Most Popular Lavendr Premium $29.99/month More Matches, More Conversations | Lavendr Premium Plus $49.99/month The Ultimate VIP Experience | Best Value Lavendr Luxe $79.99/month The Next Level of Personalized Dating |
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Profile Creation | Up to 5 photos | Up to 10 photos | Unlimited photos | Unlimited photos |
Daily Messages | 5 per day | Unlimited | Unlimited | Unlimited |
Daily Likes | 10 per day | Unlimited | Unlimited | Unlimited |
See Who Liked You | ✅ | ✅ | ✅ | |
Advanced Filters | Basic only | ✅ | ✅ | ✅ |
Profile Boost | 1x per month | 2x per month | Weekly | |
Read Receipts | ✅ | ✅ | ✅ | |
Video & Voice Calls | 10 per month | Unlimited | Unlimited | |
Incognito Mode | ✅ | ✅ | ||
Super Likes | 1 per month | 5 per week | Unlimited | |
Verified Badge | ✅ | ✅ | ||
Priority Support | ✅ | ✅ | ||
Exclusive Events | 10% discount | Up to 50% discount | ✅ | |
Personalized Matchmaking | ✅ | |||
Profile Optimization Tips | Weekly | |||
Early Access to Features | ✅ | |||
Perfect For | New users exploring Lavendr | Serious daters who want better visibility | Daters who want premium tools and enhanced visibility | Discerning daters who want the absolute best experience with personalized attention |
Get Started | Choose Plan | Choose Plan | Choose Plan |
Lavendr Luxe
Take your dating experience to the next level with Lavendr Luxe. Enjoy all premium features plus exclusive personalized matchmaking services and priority access to all Lavendr features.
What's Included?
- ✅Everything in Premium Plus PLUS:
- ✅Personalized matchmaking recommendations
- ✅Weekly profile optimization tips from dating experts
- ✅Unlimited Super Likes – Stand out to your ideal matches
- ✅Weekly Profile Boosts – Maximum visibility
- ✅Early access to new features and updates
Perfect For: Discerning daters who want the absolute best experience with personalized attention.
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