Find Love, Your Way

We believe relationships should be defined by the people in them—not by outdated expectations. Whether you're looking for deep friendships, modern dating, or a unique partnership that works for you, Lavendr helps you find connections that truly complement your life.

Proud to be the First and Only Lavendr Dating Platform

Our app's on the way, but why wait? Start mingling on the website today!

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Why Choose Lavendr

We're not just another dating app. We're a community built on respect, authenticity, and meaningful connections.

Authentic Connections
Our matching algorithm focuses on compatibility beyond just appearances.

We believe in quality over quantity. Our platform is designed to help you find genuine connections based on shared interests, values, and goals.

Safety First
Your security and comfort are our top priorities.

We've implemented robust verification processes, reporting tools, and community guidelines to ensure a safe and respectful environment for all users.

Meaningful Conversations
Our platform encourages deeper interactions.

Move beyond superficial exchanges with conversation starters and icebreakers designed to help you get to know your matches on a deeper level.

How It Works

Finding your perfect match has never been easier.

1

Create Your Profile

Sign up and build your profile with photos, interests, and preferences that showcase the real you.

2

Discover Matches

Our algorithm suggests compatible matches based on your preferences, interests, and behavior on the platform.

3

Connect & Chat

When there's mutual interest, start a conversation and get to know each other in our safe messaging environment.

4

Meet & Connect

When you're ready, take your connection to the next level and meet in person, following our safety guidelines.

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Why Lavender Relationships Just Hit Different

Lavender relationships are all about deep emotional connection, commitment, and care— without the pressure to fit into romantic or sexual norms. These connections are built on mutual respect, honesty, and the freedom to define what love and partnership look like for you. Here's why Lavender love is low-key magical:

Bestie Vibes + Bills Split? Yes, Please.

You get a solid life partner and someone to split the WiFi bill with? Win-win. Whether it's rent, groceries, or late-night takeout, Lavender connections help lighten the adulting load.

Built-In Support System

Need a last-minute ride, a sounding board, or backup during a family function? Lavender partners are ride-or-dies for the real stuff—emotionally, practically, and everything in between.

Comfort, Security & Chill

These relationships offer a safe, stable foundation—especially for anyone who's been through toxic dynamics. No drama, no pressure—just mutual care and protection.

Companionship Without Conditions

It's not always about candlelit dinners. Sometimes it's shared laundry days, inside jokes, and silent scrolling next to someone who gets you. That's love too.

Perfect for Aromantic & Asexual Folks

Not into romance or sex? Totally fine. Lavender love creates space for commitment, closeness, and emotional intimacy—without expectations that don't feel right for you.

Snuggles Optional, Comfort Guaranteed

Some Lavender relationships include cuddling, shared beds, or sweet gestures of care. But the physical side is always your call—it's connection, your way.

Deep Emotional Bonds, No Pressure to Perform

You can love someone deeply, commit to a shared life, and show up fully—without needing a romantic spark or sexual chemistry. Lavender love is about choosing your person, in the way that feels right for you both.

No Labels. No Boxes. Just Real Connection.

Lavender relationships are flexible, freeing, and entirely unique. They're about choosing your path, building your own blueprint, and creating something honest and meaningful. Lavender love is real love. It's care without conditions, partnership without pressure, and the kind of connection that just makes sense.

Plan Features
Free Membership
$0/month
Discover Love, No Cost Required
Most Popular
Lavendr Premium
$29.99/month
More Matches, More Conversations
Lavendr Premium Plus
$49.99/month
The Ultimate VIP Experience
Best Value
Lavendr Luxe
$79.99/month
The Next Level of Personalized Dating
Profile CreationUp to 5 photosUp to 10 photosUnlimited photosUnlimited photos
Daily Messages5 per dayUnlimitedUnlimitedUnlimited
Daily Likes10 per dayUnlimitedUnlimitedUnlimited
See Who Liked You
Advanced FiltersBasic only
Profile Boost1x per month2x per monthWeekly
Read Receipts
Video & Voice Calls10 per monthUnlimitedUnlimited
Incognito Mode
Super Likes1 per month5 per weekUnlimited
Verified Badge
Priority Support
Exclusive Events10% discountUp to 50% discount
Personalized Matchmaking
Profile Optimization TipsWeekly
Early Access to Features
Perfect ForNew users exploring LavendrSerious daters who want better visibilityDaters who want premium tools and enhanced visibilityDiscerning daters who want the absolute best experience with personalized attention
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Best Value

Lavendr Luxe

$79.99/month
The Next Level of Personalized Dating

Take your dating experience to the next level with Lavendr Luxe. Enjoy all premium features plus exclusive personalized matchmaking services and priority access to all Lavendr features.

What's Included?

  • Everything in Premium Plus PLUS:
  • Personalized matchmaking recommendations
  • Weekly profile optimization tips from dating experts
  • Unlimited Super Likes – Stand out to your ideal matches
  • Weekly Profile Boosts – Maximum visibility
  • Early access to new features and updates

Perfect For: Discerning daters who want the absolute best experience with personalized attention.

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